Somehow, I knew this
month was going to be a big one, maybe even a grand slam. It is almost
incomprehensible how much Lucille has learned in the past four weeks. She has
hit milestone after milestone, so much so that were I to elaborate in the narrative
format, this entry would be to long:
- She can now hold a sippy cup and drink from it.
- She had her first ride, big girl style up front, in a shopping cart. And she loved it!
- She sat in a high-chair at a restaurant. Gone is the schlepping of the car seat.
- She now reaches for and attempts to hold her own bottle; those bottles are now 6.5 ounces.
- While in the sitting position, she can then move onto her belly, then up on her hands and knees and rock back and forth.
- She in incredibly intent on pulling up and standing.
- She fed herself food for the first time, and now continues to do so on a regular basis.
- She often grabs for the spoon and attempts to feed herself.
- She has figured out how to roll!!
- Should her pacifier fall out in the middle of the night, Big Red and I no longer have to replace it for her. She can reach around, find it, and put it back in her own mouth.
- She can now put herself to sleep, not only at night, but for her naps as well.
- She has dropped the five o' clock hour feeding and now sleeps through to the six o' clock hour, upon which she gets a bottle, and then goes back to sleep for a hour, sometimes an hour and a half.
- She had her first pool experience and splashed happily in the water.
- Is beginning to learn to wave, "bye-bye."
- Added scrambled eggs, toast w/butter, black beans, mango, quinoa, kale, blueberry, and cauliflower to the list of foods she eats.
- She now weighs roughly 20 lbs.
- And she responds to her name.
This was also the month we celebrated my first Mother’s Day.
I had requested of Big Red a particular gift I’d seen mentioned among my
Mommy Group friends, a Mother’s Journal. In lieu of cards, the idea behind the journal is to
provide a space for your child to write letters to you each year. Since Lucy
is obviously not old enough to write me a letter, Big Red penned one on her behalf, glued in a couple of pictures, and outlined her tiny little hand. It
was perfect. Flowers arrived the day before Mother’s Day, and to my surprise,
they were from my West Coast family! Breakfast that Sunday morning was eggs benedict, my absolute favorite. It was the Mother's Day it was supposed to be; sweet and intimate, not too much fuss.
A friend of mine from graduate school sent me an email
the other day and he’d asked, in the message, to update him on Lucy and my
life. I told him that I really like my daughter, and I explained that sometimes
when I tell folks that they’re response is, “You like her? You don’t love
her?” Without question or hesitation, I love my daughter. In fact the word love often seems to pale in comparison
to what I feel for this little girl. But you can love someone, and not
necessarily like them. Not only do I love my daughter, but I like her too.
She’s so much fun to be around these days.
We hit a home run with this kid, I tell you, and it continues to be a privilege to see her
personality flourish. Lucy is becoming this wonderfully funny and bright little
being; her very own self apart from me and Big Red. It’s like magic.
Then I
think to myself, I made her.
And then
I’m overwhelmed with the gravity of it all. Those slippery ideas that
you attempt to grapple with but end up shelving for another time because
they’re just too big. Maybe that’s the way it’s meant to be: stay present,
dance in the feelings of the moment, and quit trying to understand the expanse
of those emotions, because you just know.
Happy eight months, my sweet Lucille.
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